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41-50,
*arah11
writes:hi i met this guy and we talked on the fone all the time 4 a couple of months before we met, then we met up he came 2 mine we had sex. then we met up the other nite i went 2 his, its jus he dosent call or text me that often like he used 2, does he really want me
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reader, Johnnyboy03  +, writes (15 March 2009):
 I hate to say it, but its probably just a booty call thing. He may or may not call again, but he's not serious about a relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): He'll call you again when he's horny. Don't worry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): He'll call again when he gets the itch... sounds like your number 8 or so on the redial, though.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (15 March 2009):
 NO HE WANTED A SHAG AND YOU GAVE HIM ONE! He got what he wanted from you now he will find another easy girl, or keep using you as a BOOTY CALL!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 March 2009):
If you had sex with him the first time you met him he's going to assume that that is all you wanted.
He's also probably lost respect for you as men have MASSIVE double standards about this kind of thing.
Leave him to it and if he doesn't call again then it's his loss.
All you can do is accept your mistake and learn from it. Next time you meet a guy make sure you meet up and date for a while before taking him back to your place, let alone having sex with him.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): You should ask when he does call or text. I know that this can put some guys off, but sometimes guys will actually give you a reason/explanation.
If you feel that his explanation is a lie/crock, well then he doesn't want you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): not wise my dear
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