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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey So Ive been seeing this guy off and on for about 3 years now, he has been married before but he got married right out of high school and he is 25 now. But im not so sure if I want to stay with him or not I mean he said he still has feelings for his ex-wife that cheated on him 6 months after they got married. He has cried about it when he was with me.Our sex life is boring now, he is never in the mood anymore because he cant let my past go which I regret. I mean our relationship is up in the air, what do you guys think I should do just work things out with him or just let it blow away???Please I need your help!
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reader, triedit  +, writes (15 March 2009):
 He may not actually have feelings for HER but rather for the loss of the relationship. My first hubby and I have been apart since 1990 and sometimes I still cry when I talk about him even though I am now VERY happily married. You are lucky he trusts you enough to open his heart like that.He is terrified you are going to hurt him like she did. Because of your past (and Im NOT criticizing, I've been around the block a few times myself) he is very wary. The only thing that is going to "fix" this is for you guys to really talk heart to heart when these feelings come up and for you to NEVER EVER give him ANY reason to think you've cheated.
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