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Could I be in love with the wrong person?

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Question - (15 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Can I be in love with the wrong person?

I am 28 and practice my religion. I have strong feelings for another women who is in her forties and is an atheist. We have different cultural backgrounds. We have been friends for over 4 years, and I have had these feelings for along time. We do normal things together and have a good laugh. I don’t know if she feels the same way but there is defiantly something there. When I am with her nothing else matters. She is wonderful. But I know it’s wrong to love her. We can never be together. We will be condemned by everyone in society. Is it better to try to forget her, not to be around her? every time i say to my self I will create a distance between us something happens and we end up meeting each other or talking. I love her so much but i believe that you cant always have the person you love?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009):

hey :) i fink if you reely do love her then you should forget the differences. ok so im not even 16 and youre probably thinking tis stupid teenager wat does she noe but you asked for advice and im giving it to you. this is the 21st century ppl will be surprised at first and possibly a bit angry and disappointed but if you think shes the one then y not? ok so theres the religious stuff etc but still... if you cnt give up something for a girl then how cn you show tat you love her? she probably feels the same way about you but is also scared. but if you reely do love eachother then you can get thru the difficulties. hope tis helps x

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