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*r41
writes:Hi, I'm 19 years old and i have a problem. I love to have sex...all day and night. I tend to scare many girls off...... at first they tend to like it and then get annoyed by it and they just end up leaving me. what different can i do to keep these girls around? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (16 March 2009):
 Think of the adorable puppy who is just the cutest thing; he's so cuddly and soft and sweet and you just want to be with him all the time. But then he turns into the dreaded Leg Humper. (He also is not trained and chews the furniture and pees on the best carpet in the house. But that's another issue.)
You realize that your affection for the puppy isn't returned in the same way. The puppy only sees you as an object to be mounted and humped away at. The puppy doesn't remember your birthday or take you out dinner, or give you back or foot rubs when you need one. The puppy doesn't respect your need for sleep and whines away about needing attention at all hours of the night. No, the puppy just wants to eat, pee, poop and hump your leg. Basically, you are there to serve the puppy's needs, is the way the puppy sees it.
It gets really boring after a while, the puppy doesn't seem to learn that it's not okay to hump your leg ALL the time, and the cuteness factor isn't enough to keep the puppy around. So the puppy gets put in the crate or is kicked out of the house until the puppy has grown up enough to behave like a grown up dog. The grown up understands the needs of others and doesn't presume that his desires trump all else. The grown up interacts with the WHOLE person, not just the leg.
Basically, the puppy, one hopes, grows up to be a well-balanced dog, treating the people around him with respect. But he still keeps some of his cuddliness and sense of fun; he just recognizes that there's a time and place for everything.
Sit! Stay! Good boy.
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reader, artian  +, writes (16 March 2009):
 Imagine having sex with a girl/woman you really didn't want too! Would it be good sex?
Ask yourself is that what your doing to them?
If your trying to make love with someone that does not want too you might as well have sex with a card board box or the sofa.
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reader, artian +, writes (15 March 2009):
a loving reAlationship needs: Intimacy, Passion, Commitment. That is to each other not just the sex organs! If you put that last she would probably appreciate it a lot more.Have fun.
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reader, Tewebag +, writes (15 March 2009):
mr41 if your going to ask for help and then msg me later why even ask for the help if your going to argue with what i suggested? you want them to stay stop trying to have sex all the time like everyoone else said. or you could just ignore us all and keep going at it and keep wondering why girls keep leaving you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): try new sports,soccer,films not porn,go traveling,find new hobbies to keep mind on something else,its hormones it,ll were off,eventually,go clubbing and pubbing,do a course in sport.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): Stop having constant sex would be a good start. Do other things with them....
My favourite food is Ice cream if i ate it all the time every day, i would start to hate it. SO stop.. slowdown....enjoy...
Star.x.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (15 March 2009):
 Trying to make a girl have sex with you 24/7 isn't exactly going to make her feel wanted or special, more just like a stand in blow up doll :)
This is actually a recognised addiction and you can get help with this if you feel it is a big enough problem, ask your GP or have a browse on Google...
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reader, Pyro_Dimples +, writes (15 March 2009):
 haha I have the same problem with guys which may sound odd but then again I like sex.lol. You just have to sacrifice your own wants and have a movie night or a couple days off. I'm sure if you really like the girl you can stand porn for a night. haha
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 March 2009):
You have to realise that your relationships cannot be all about sex.
You may want to have it all night and all day but what do THEY want to do?
It can't all be about your needs and wants.
You have to care about them and show them you see them as more than just something to have sex with.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Tewebag +, writes (15 March 2009):
so the problem is they leave when your always asking them to have sex with you all the time? and you want to know how to keep the from leaving? ummmm maybe you should not ask them for sex all the time. just my guess but who knows what the real problem is?
you have atleast one hand (hopefully) use it instead of always asking for sex, isnt that why we have a hand? i cant think of any other reasons for needing one..
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