A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: I am feeling frustrated about my singlehood. My last relationship was 8 years ago and after that relationship, it seems like I can't seem to find any nice guy who wants to be in a relationship with me. I have been to single activities, go for casual dating, register myself on singles website, etc but I still can't meet anyone. I am 39 this year and I would really like to settle down and start a family. I really don't understand why because I am beautiful, intelligent, trendy, open-minded, educated, has a good career, has a beautiful house, kind, caring, patient, can cook, bake and do household chores. Whoever marries me is a gonna be a lucky guy. But I can't seem to find that special someone. What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, triedit +, writes (15 March 2009):
Livia is bang on. You don't find love, love finds you. ANd only when you are a whole, healthy, confident, happy person. Relax, it will happen!
A
female
reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (15 March 2009):
Love finds you when your not looking.
Find some new hobbies that you want to try like going to different clubs. Try sailing because you will be in a small space with about 5 other people and believe me you make life long friends and get very personal with each other.
Focus on yourself. Treat yourself! Just smile at random people and start conversations with just anyone. You might find "the one" this way you never know.
Good luck
Livia
xx
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