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writes:I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now but we have known each other for about 2 months. We we first got together, he pressed himself against me and I said that I don't do that without a commitment and asked if he wanted to try dating and he said "We'll go with the flow." Since then, we have been texting and calling each other about every other day and he would come to my place and vice versa. I asked if he was once of those guys who just wants to sleep with me and he said that he does, but that's not all he wants. Of course, not all we do is physical. We talk a lot and get to know each other more, he calls me baby, kisses me in public etc. Its finals week in school so we can't really spend too much time with each other because we both need to study. I said that we need to go on an official date and he promised to take me out once he gets money. Friday night, I went over to his place and we got into a makeout session again. He wanted me to give him a handjob and placed my hand over his jeans. I did it for about a minute and he then put my hand down his pants, which is when I took it away and he got mad at me for teasing him. I havent spoken to him since that night and I want to text him but I dont know what to say. I feel like he is still mad at me for teasing him because he didnt invite me over saturday night and I know that he didnt study, he just smoked with his friends. I mean is he just being a "guy" or is sex the only thing he wants from me? Is it too soon to start worrying?
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reader, Johnnyboy03 +, writes (15 March 2009):
 It's one thing to take it slow. It's another to act like he is acting. It is perfectly ok for you to want commitment before taking your relationship to the next level. You guys have been seeing each other long enough that he should have had time to see if he wants to commit or not.
Starfairy is probably right in this case. I would steer clear and move on. He isn't willing to commit. It could be he's keeping you around while he is looking elsewhere, and by not commiting fully he won't feel guilty about it.
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (15 March 2009):
 WHAT A PRICK!!!!!!!
You are NOT a tease. He is a complete waste of space and will only pressure you into doing something you don't want to do...If you don't want to end up feeling used & cheap, steer clear.
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