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Am I unappealing?

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Question - (15 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 March 2009)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

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Umm, well I'm a 15-year-old girl. I'm 5'6", 150-160 pounds. The weight is comprised of muscle, hourglass curves, and 34DD breasts, hahaha. I've read a lot about girls asking advice about their small breasts, and I've seen a fair number of responses in which men have expressed a dislike of large boobs. My bf is the type of guy who really wouldn't look down my shirt just because he's got a good angle on the girls, he respects me more than that--so he really isn't helpful with my body insecurities, because I know he loves me. But are my breasts... Unappealing, I guess, is my question?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009):

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Thanks, this is all greatly appreciated! And especially ArmyMedic, it really hadn't occured to me that I was seeing posts of the opposite opinion, though that opinion would be in existence--just not posted there. Thanks a bunch!

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (15 March 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntYou have to appreciate that the answers posted on here come from a wide range of people so people who don't like small boobs will not tell a girl who's worried about her small boobs that as it will be counter productive.

Men are strange and fickle creatures, and have many many different tastes and it doesn't matter if you are big, small fat or thin, there are guys out there that will be in to your look.

Your boyfriend sounds like a genuinely nice guy and is being respectful towards you, many men feel that commenting on a girls breasts is disrespectful, so his lack of compliments doesn't mean he doesn't like you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009):

We cannot accurately make a guess of what your boyfriend likes. If you ask the entire population of males and females on this planet as to what they think of your chest, each person will tell you a slightly different answer. Just as well, for those that prefer large breasts, it also does not necessarily mean that those same people will like the look and shape of yours.

Like the vast range of shades of a 'particular' colour. Rick may like light blue, Takura may like navy blue, but Kazuma may like pastel blue. They're all blue, but they're all different tones of blue.

Ultimately, the person you should ask, is your boyfriend. If you cannot get an answer from the secondary source of your insecurities, then no one else can give you that answer.

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