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writes:I'm not sure how to word this so I'll just tell the story and hope for the best. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now, and, up untill yesterday, everything was perfect. We only really see eachother once a week on a saturday, and i normally stay round his house untill about 10/10.30pm when his dad drops me home. Yesterday, i cudnt be dropped home at 10 and had to be taken home at 5. And i got in such a bad mood. I mean, i was literally unbearable. At the time i didnt realise it, and i was upset of having to leave early, but as soon as i got in my front door i thought to myself "OH, SHIT". Instead of making the most of the little time we had together, i acted like a complete idiot. I was moody, grumpy, bitchy and sarcastic. I wasnt co-operative, and, he really did try bless him. He took me to town and took me for a walk but i remained cold and unapreciative. Now, understandably, he's annoyed, and, in his own words, disapointed with me. I agree.I guess what im trying to say is, how can I make this up to him? I don't have a chance to see him again untill friday and thats only a maybe as it is, so what can i do?? Any suggestions at all are helpful, pleaseeeeeee!!!! I'm feeling so guilty and just need something, anything, to try turn this around :( Reply to this Question
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reader, starfairy +, writes (15 March 2009):
 YOU DON'T NEED TO MAKE IT UP TO HIM!!!!!!
So you were a bit stroppy, you're female, that's what we do from time to time. And being with someone, you learn to live with the good moods and the bad moods, although to be honest if you only see each other once a week, I doubt you act like your true selves around each other, which is probably why you feel guilty for being moody around him just the once!
Don't worry about it, sh*t happens, he'll get over it, and if he doesn;t, do you really wanna be with someone who can't just take you as you are?
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (15 March 2009):
 Being a teenager you have so many hormones going around your body so it will cause you to have alot of emotion and get annoyed at the simplest things.I think you just need to talk to your boyfriend and just say your sorry and didn't mean to act like that towards him and explain to him that you were just upset that you weren't spending alot of time with him. Next time you see him try and be extra nice to him. Don't suck up to him and act like a complete angel but just do the odd nice thing for him.Good luckLiviaxx
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reader, triedit  +, writes (15 March 2009):
 Aww sweetie that is such a woman way to react LOL I did the exact same thing with my hubby on Friday night. We've been having some problems and set up a date and I cried through the whole dinner. I felt just like you--that I really screwed up.
When we got home, I apologized and told him what had been on my mind. We had a wonderful talk about how we should always feel free to really talk about things. I can happily say that really opened doors for us and things are all around back on track.
Don't be afraid to tell him your real feelings. What you felt then, and what you feel now. Ask him what you can do. He will probably say there's nothing, but don't let that freak you out. It probably means he's not really all that mad and that he understands.
Best thing ever is to really treat your bf like a best friend--talk about ANY problems with him, even if they are about you and him being together.
I wish I had known that when I was your age. Perhaps it would have made the last 30 years easier!
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