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I'm meeting his parents and grandparents for the first time! I'm really nervous!

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Question - (15 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *misslovettx writes:

Tommorow i am going to pizza hut with my boyfriend and his parents and his grandparents for his birthday. I have been with him for a year and he felt it was time i met them. Im really nervous because what if they dont like me. also im vegetarian and they're not so i will feel akward to have to eat different things from then and i also am very shy in front of people i dont know. i dont know what to do

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009):

Pizza hut may have been a bad choice. Did your BF make the choice? A restaurant with a buffet and salad bar (like Outback) may have been a better choice. You could just fill your plate with whatever you want and it would not even be noticed. Anyway, don't worry and don't be nervous. If anyone comments on your not eating any meat, (they probably won't) just say you don't feel like it tonight. Or simply say that you don't eat meat. It probably won't be met with the reaction you think. Just join in with the conversations like you were perfectly happy with everything....It is usually the "appearance" of self-consciousness that draws attention to it. If you don't appear that way, you won't be seen to be.

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A female reader, kerrykinsx United Kingdom +, writes (15 March 2009):

kerrykinsx agony auntfirst of all relax , im sure they'll love you just as much as he dose secondly dont worry about eating differnt food. im sure his parents & grandparents will make you feel really welcom. just try and be your self good luck

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