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Tubes tied, should I were a condom?

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Question - (15 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 March 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, *oofast15 writes:

my girlfriend has her tubes both cut and burned. she has no std's and is disease free. should i were protection?? she had them cut about 11yrs ago.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009):

How old is she? If she is close to your age, I would be suspicious of whether she is telling the truth. Some women convince men there is no chance of getting them pregnant just to get pregnant in hopes of tying down the man.

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (15 March 2009):

jessica04 agony auntHave her ask her doctor what her risk of ectopic pregnancy is.

I'm not sure if their are different surgeries for having a woman's tubes tied. If hers were cauterized I'd venture a guess and say you're relatively safe. But ectopic pregnancy is a pretty big risk once a woman has had her tubes tied, mainly because she isn't looking out for unexpected pregnancies since having her tubes tied is misconstrued as being a foolproof method of birth control.

To be safe use spermicide until she can talk more in depth with her doctor and get some harder facts.

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (15 March 2009):

tux agony auntHow old are you and how old is she? I'm guessing you are either dating an much older woman or labeled your age young or have a girlfriend that got her tubes tied at a very very young age.

Either way, If you are for certain that she exactly had this procedure done and is STD-free along with yourself being STD, then I think you are relatively safe to go unprotected. Just keep in mind that just because she tells you that she's had her tubes tied, does not mean she did get it done. I can say I'm Bill Clinton, but that still doesn't make me Bill Clinton. But if you trust her, then I'd say you are fine to go unprotected..

Now if she is 18-21, then I would question that she has had her tubes tied 11 years ago..

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