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writes:Okay my question is this a big problem waiting to happen? There's this girl I decided to become friends with at work. She's a major sweetheart and we have a lot in common.Well recently she told me she doesn't have any girl friends because they (everyone of them) used to be all over him, flirting, etc. and tell him things about her in order to break them up. She's an extremely jealous type and yet she keeps trying to push me to be friends with her boyfriend. Hang out with him and her, chat up with him, etc. I don't feel comfortable with the whole idea. Now I am not exactly the "honest" type. I have cheated on almost all of my boyfriends and even gone after exes bestfriends. I haven't gone after a bestfriend's boyfriend and I definitely wont start now. I draw the line at that. Anyways I haven't met her boyfriend and we're supposedly supposed to start hanging out soon. I invited two of my other guy bestfriends to come hang out with us too so I don't feel weird. Recently while trying to walking from the parking lot to my work. My bestfriend's boyfriend was chatting up with her in the parking lot. She kept telling her hey that's my bestfriend. You have to meet her, etc. He was like hey I am talking to you. but he perceeded to stare at me as I walked inside. My bestfriend responded with, "I know isn't she hot?" and he agreed. Then I went out with one of my guy friends and I was texting my bestfriend. She said she was hanging out with her man. I said cool say hi for me then supposedly she said he got really excited that I said hi and was like he said to tell you HI!!!! Now she keeps making up excuses for not hanging out with me and now she's trying to get close to all my other bestfriends. Should I be bothered by that? He is supposedly mainly in love with her, why is he staring at me and getting excited when I say hi via text? Is he being shady?
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reader, triedit  +, writes (15 March 2009):
 You have one very messed up new friend. I'd tread VERY lightly on ANY sort of friendship with her. She sounds like a psycho time bomb.
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