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writes:okies...im male, im 16 n i have a strange question... ive been going out with my girlfried for a year now! and things are great! i love her so much and unlike other teenage relationships this one has lasted really long... she is very cute! anywayz...me, my ex and my girlfriend have been hanging out with eachother alot. were all really good mates and other boys are jelous that i hang out with two nice girls all the time he he! anyways... my girlfriend and my ex are bi curious. my girlfriend always tells me how she would f*** my ex. this dont bother me, infact like any teenage boy i fink thats awesome lol! anyways down to the point.my ex has been acting rather strangly recently to me... she comments on me as a person really posertivly and even sumtimes says "awwh ur so cute" my girlfriend just goes along with her. when me and my ex are alone which is hardly ever things get a lil aukward... like 1 time we wer just sitting side by side and she suddly rests her head on my arm, and another time me n her wer randomly looking at some beautiful stars in the night sky she says "wow... its so beautiful tonight" and stuff like that, could this be flirting romanticly??? she even teases me all the time in a flirty way... still my girlfriend doesnt say nuffin. infact she does it along with her! my girlfriends told me a couple of times about her bi fantisies and sed "ooooh... ill let her titfuck you and then i can lick up the...." yeeah i wont go into to much detail about that but you get my drift... btw both my grilfriend and my ex are attractive in different ways. my girlfrient is really cute. both personality and body... nice average sized breasts and an awsome ass lol... on the other hand my ex is fiesty, has a bubbly personality and has huge breasts (DD's). anywayz... heres the questioni was just wondering how my girlfriend feels??? i mean would she really allow a freesome!?!?! i mean thats awesome but as a loyal boyfriend i try not to think or fantisize or get tempted by it. or is my girlfriend trying to catch me out!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): Don't go there. A threesome is just asking for disaster.
About the only acceptable threesome is a non-sexual one, and that's unlikely to happen.
It will only cause resentment and anger between you, so please don't go there.
I had a girl offer me a threesome with her and another one when I was about 18-19, thankfully I said no.
Hope I've been of help; this is from a source that has no basis other than my own meandering experience.
To quote Baz Luhrmann's "Sunscreen" song;
Don't be reckless with other people's hearts, don't put up with
People who are reckless with yours
That's the maxim to follow.
Don't go there, trust me on that one.
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reader, Harry Castle +, writes (15 March 2009):
 A lot of good comments from the other answerers - take note of what they say!A thought occured, reading between the lines of your posting: it might be that the two of them are winding you up a little. Perhaps they want to have each other, but want your approval? I know, a typical male fantasy, two girls performing for a bloke - best to keep it as a fantay at your age, though. I doubt that you could handle it emotionally, especially if they ladies got bitchy - have you ever seen that happen?BEWARE!Sorry, any ladies reading this, but you are AWESOJME in such a situation and only well-experienced males dare come near.......Harry.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (15 March 2009):
 Dude you seriously need to consider the implications of a THREESOME. I'm guessing as you can't spell yet that you are not the most mature of 16 year olds.
Having a threesome will probably involve your girlfriend and your ex having lots of fun together while you are sat there not too sure what to do with yourself (ever heard the expression three's a crowd?)
Nobody in a loving relationship should engage in a threesome it causes a lot of heartache, and someone always feels left out!
Don't get me wrong, as a bit of a fling or being the third person it can be fun, where you have no emotional ties.
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reader, Honest_Answers +, writes (15 March 2009):
 Be careful! I was 16 once and I know how confusing it can be from a girls point of view. Being bi-curious is something many teens go through so in no way is that odd.
I think this sounds a bit like both girls are trying to please you, they may say things because they want to sound 'sexy' to you, so you see them as more sexaully desirable.
In actual fact this situation, if it ever came to anything, would be extremely troubelsome. Even if both girls are 'ok' with it the aftermath can be terrible. Your new girlfriend may not like the way you kiss your ex or may get jealous, or it may rekindle your feelings for your ex. Or it may raise suspicions in yourself that they like each other more than they like you!
I don't think they're trying to 'catch you out' both seem just eager to please! You're young and have loads of time to experiment but i'd recommend trying threesomes with people who you don't have such emotional bonds to, it often ends in tears!
Don't forget be safe and wear a condom. In a threesome you should wear a fresh condom before you enter each girl to avoid infecting them.
Hope that helps!
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reader, Pyro_Dimples  +, writes (15 March 2009):
 Hell kid just ask her. that is the simplest way to find out. If she is that open with you just jokingly say hey we should try it. when your ex and her and both flirting. make sure you say it in an easy joking way though. that way if she isn't in to it you can see her reaction.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (15 March 2009):
 Ok, my impression (bear in mind I may be wrong) is that your GF is going along with your ex's flirting because she doesn't want to be the jealous insecure GF, so she's pretending to be ok with it. NO GIRL IN HER RIGHT MIND WOULD WANTE HER BOYFRIEND'S EX ALL OVER HIM, EITHER IN FRONT OF HER OR BEHIND HER BACK. Past and present girlfriends are never a great mix...It's just asking for trouble in your current relationship, and of course when it gets rough with your GF, who are you going to run to....?!
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