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writes:Okay so my best friend in the world has had the worst luck. Her boyfriend cheated on her with her best friend. And I'm the one who supported her who was with her when she cryied and no she's friends with that bitch agin. How how is that possible it pissed me off I'm upset. Now this isn't the first time her friend did this. I realy don't like to judge but she did this 3 time to her she don't deserve to be called a friend(her supposed freind) so how could they be friends after three times . Haven't she ever herd 3 strikes your out?
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reader, Shadowplay  +, writes (15 March 2009):
My boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend, we are not friends anymore, made me realise she obviously wasnt that good of a friend - she didnt even apologise to mYour friend however obviously still sees the good in her, if or when it happens again - dont feel obliged to be her shoulder to cry on, if its happened before theres nothing stopping it happening again. you and your friend need to make a stand to be clear you arent a pushover to her - and that she isnt one to her friend or boyfriend.
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reader, tux +, writes (15 March 2009):
 Maybe she's waiting for that fourth strike?
But I think you need to reassess your friendship with this girl.. She is making bad choices and continues to do them. Next time, I would just not be at her side to get sympathy.. Let her cry her eyes out, maybe that will teach her and if she asks why you don't care, you can tell her that I gave up caring this problem of yours the last time when you let your "friend" have an affair with your boyfriend. Sometimes people just need to hit rock bottom by themselves to see the light.
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