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writes:I had sex with my ex boyf for the VERY LAST time during the middle of a period - he came inside me before I had a chance to tell him not to!! he told me he thought there was less risk of getting me pregnant and hope I didn't mind..and cos I was on a period thought it would be okay..so we just did like that and then he broke my heart a week later when he decided that no actually he didn't really want me at all. Nice..mm..so anyway to get over him I moved on to a man I had been dating but hadn't had sex with..cos was still with my ex at time of dating him and told him so - he was cool about it.Sex was great with new guy - way better than old guy so was happy and I told him how I want a family and stuff - explained how my ex had let me down and that I now wanted to move on, settle down and have all the norm if possible. So we had sex but he came inside me BUT I didn't even notice cos the sex was soo good - I didn't believe him when he told me he had was that out of it..took a pill cos thought I better go on protection..cos was not on a period. I had to then ask the new guy..oh god did you cum inside me..he said yeah of course you're hot etc. I was like oh shit. Now my period is late and I am trying to work out if I do fall pregnant - whose baby it will be if it comes to that. I went to a due date calculator and it gave me the date of conception - which is when I had sex with new guy, but thing is sperm can live up to 5 days (I read) inside the woman - so am wondering if when I ovulated old guy sperm was the one..or is it new guy??..it has left me stressed out of my skull..I think it is new guys?! I hope so anyway! cos the ex doesn't deserve me and I don't want him now cos he really messed my head up. Any advice - this really embarrasses me. New guy - been dating on and off for a while but left him a few months before finally having sex with him. Only had sex with him after breaking up with old guy. Any ideas who the daddy to be might be?
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reader, tux  +, writes (15 March 2009):
 I would say you have a 93% chance that it's the new bf's baby if in fact you are pregnant. You do have less chances of conceiving if you have sex during your period, although you still can.. If you had sex with the new guy when your calendar said you can conceive.. I'd go with that. But make sure you are in fact pregnant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): Sounds to me like it would be the new guy. But before you totally stress over this why dont you take a pregnancy test? If its negative then get some birth control girl!
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