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I'm afraid getting hurt again

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Question - (15 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I think i love my boyfriend but I'm afraid getting hurt again. Plus I'm still a virgin and he seems like a horn dog. but i want us to be happy with each other. I really do think i love him but i dnt want to lose my virginity if he going to hurt me.

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A female reader, Miss Karma Louise United Kingdom +, writes (9 April 2009):

do you know what ive learnt not all men/boys are out to hurt you..some do actually like/love youu.

i suppose its like lollipops some are sweet and some are sour..but you dont now wich is wich untill you try them out. Have a good think wheather he is "the one".

Dont listen to enyone but your own mind.

at the end of the day you now whats best.

good luck honey.

keep us posted.

Karma xx

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A female reader, WontGiveUp United States +, writes (15 March 2009):

If you have doubts and only think you love him, do not give up your virginity. If he really loves you and cares about you, he will respect that and be willing to wait. If he is not willing to wait, then he isn't worth your time or anguish.

You do not need to have sex in order to be happy in your relationship. Especially when you are only 16/17.

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