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*nomynousgirl
writes:i have fancied tis boy since october 2008... i feel more and more strongly about him everyday... i dnt noe wat to do... in primary skl i fancied tis boy since the day we started at reception till a few days into yr 7... we went to different secondary skls and were good friends in yr 5 and 6 but i never told him how i felt nd we never went out i cried for nites. now im worried tat me nd tis boy would end up the same. i dnt noe how to stop tis feeling before i fall any deeper im 14 and still in skl how cn i stop fancying him even more? ty xx Reply to this Question
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reader, Shadowplay +, writes (15 March 2009):
If you have his number or email chat to him more, (or ask for it) give him yours possibly that would show if hes interested for what he does with it.
You dont need to tell someone you like them, make the effort, or more effort, he will figure
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reader, Harry Castle +, writes (15 March 2009):
 You can't jst switch off your feelings, nor should you; but don't make too much of it,please.
Part of being a teenager and growing up is that you will go through intense periods of angst and even heartache. You won't see it that way right now, but it's all part of the "fun" of being young and in a few years, with your backward-looking spectacles on, you will smile indulgently to yourself and remember......
Enjoy the intensity of the emotions you are having now; you may never feel so "alive" again!
Not exactly advice, I know, but it's the best I can think of right now: just stop worrying and go with the flow.
Harry
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