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My parents will FREAK if I tell them how old he is. Does age matter?

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Question - (15 March 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2009)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

A four weekends ago my girlfriends and I were out for drinks and I accidently dumped into this cute business type guy and spilled my drink on him. We started talking and he told me I owed him a dance for getting him dirty. We danced and ended up talking the rest of the night. Every saturday night since I see him at the same bar and we end up spending the entire night together. I'm 22 and he is 34, he has never been married and has no kids. We both were drunk last night and we went to his place. We messed around, kissing , and oral play but he stopped short of sex saying I was too drunk. We ended kissing and falling asleep. This morning when I woke up he was in his kitchen cooking breakfast. He was really sweet and we talked. He drove me home and kissed me then asked me to dinner tomorrow. I really like him and he is a super sweet but I think my parents would freak if I told them his age. Does age really matter?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009):

Age is arbitrary.

That simple.

This sounds like quite the relation.

I've got grandparent that met around the same age as you and the gentleman, with a little over a decade difference in age and live together happily to this day.

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A female reader, georgiexx United Kingdom +, writes (26 March 2009):

georgiexx agony auntGo for it your both legal...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009):

Well, being you are now a legal adult in any country in the Universe, there is not single thing they can do about it, whether they like it or not.

It is no longer their happiness and approval you should be seeking, but your own.

Are YOU happy? Is he? Do YOU love him? And does he love you? If the answer to those questions is a YES, then that is all that matters.

If your parents dislike the age issue, fuck them. It's not their decision anymore anyway. If they kick up a fuss about it, tell them that they either accept him and treat with respect and dignity, or you will cut them out of your life.

If they are willing to let their own daughter walk away from them because of their own predjudices and pre-conceptions, then it was all worth it in the end.

But chances are, they won't. They will yield to your strong stance and learn to keep any negative views to themselves.

Flynn 24

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A female reader, loveprincess United Kingdom +, writes (15 March 2009):

loveprincess agony auntu dont wnat to lie to ur parents but try to not say anything about his age until they get to know him as by then if they liked him they would not be a problem

u r both old enough to know what u r doing

so go for is

i hope this helps

Gabriella

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009):

I don't think age matters, but I'm not your parents! Does he look his age? Maybe you should ommit that info until they get to know him. It won't matter so much if they like him! But, you are of legal age to do what you please. So, I wouldn't worry too much unless there's a trust fund involved!!!

Good Luck!

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