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male
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30-35,
*att1993
writes:me and my girlfriend have been very close and even intimate on a few occasions, however when we do have sex she gets a pain down below once we finish. she thinks its "probably just a cut or something" and not to worry about it. but weve stopped having sex because were "too tired" or "just not in the mood right now". i have been getting very suspitious that she may have gone to the doctors and doesnt want to scare me away, (if that makes sence). what should i do? i love her so very much and dont want to lose her.
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reader, matt1993 +, writes (15 March 2009):
matt1993 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the info,
i forgot to mention that we did alot of fore play before we had sex but it still hurt, could there be a medical reason or just simply that it could be the thickness of us? (her uterus or my penis etc)
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (15 March 2009):
 Your girlfriend is experiencing pain because you are going through her hymen.
For some girls they have a thick hymen which can cause alot of pain when having sex.
Where as some girls have harderly no hymen at all.
To help stop this pain try foreplay before sex. Get some lube on your fingers and gentaly put them inside of her. Do this slowly so you don't hurt her. Then afterwards gentaly go inside her. If it hurts stop and try again later.
Good luck
Livia
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