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*oncered_sister
writes:Im 26 years old and have a 21 yr old sister she was baby sitting for me and when she used our computer she didnt log off. I happened to come across a very distrubing email from her boyfriend of 6 months. Before I satrt I should say that se was been acting very strange , depressed and crying alot. In the email he talked about how great it was to see her qouted "getting fucked like a whore" and "seeing so much cum in her pussy". I couldnt imange my husband saying anything like that to me. As i read on it said that "ALL of the other guys loved how wet she got". and "next time I know a FEW more guys who would love to fuck your guts out" My sister is a very sweet girl but very easyly convinced into doing tings. I oouldnt see her planning or enjoying a group sex experience. I know that they had have 3 sum before but she told me she didnt enjoy them but he did so she went along with it.I dont want her to feel she needs to do these tings for any guy and I know that she will regret it for the rest of her life.Should I mention it to her if so how do I bring it up and get her to realize what she is doing? And sould I mention it to my parents?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009): I think you should talk to her and see how she feels tell her there are guys out there that will treat her with respect that she deserves. I could never imagine calling my wife a "whore". Also you need a trusted male friend to talk to him the hard way if you know what i mean. That is the only way those kind of people understand. At this point I would be more worried about her safety than anything things like this tun violent very quickly if she was to tell him NO.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009):
I would care less if my sister had done the same as you. It is your computer after all and she did leave it open. You knew something wrong was up and went with your instinct and read her email.
As she is your baby sister, you feel responsible for her welfare. You realize that she is feeling upset and you should address that by speaking with her privately. Let her know that you are there for her and she should not do anything she does not feel comfortable doing.
Had I been in your situation, I would have called her up immediately and told her what I'd found. All I would be interested in is the happiness of my sister and not so much is this proper? I would much rather have tried to help than let it go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): She may enjoy doing these things. If I was you, I would tell her what I read and ask if she knew what she was doing. If she's fine and everything alright then you should back off
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (15 March 2009):
 Why the hell would you mention it to yout parents? It's none of your or their business what your sister is doing.
Some people like kinky sex, some people like dirty talking, some people like group sex. Just because you don't understand it doesn't mean that you have to but in and judge her for what she's doing. Reading her emails was a violation of her privacy, you'll just have to live with that on your conscience.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (15 March 2009):
 I see your point, but I think this is your sister's business.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): okay why were you Reading her emails? And talk to her about it, she's obviously in a bit of trouble. Don't say anything to your parents without asking her about it first and making sure she's comfertable. The boyfriend who sent these messages seems very... Well not such a nice guy. Tell her to talk to him
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