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writes:Well I need some advice, I just turned 18 and for my party my friends and I went down to my summer house to have a party. I have never thought of my friends romantically nether girls nor guys, but something really weird happened. I'm not gay, and I've had some girlfriends in the past and I've never felt an attraction to men but my friend Manuel and I did it, and now I don't know what to do. It all started on the ride down, we where all cramped into this really small van, it was so small that I had to put my legs in between Manuel's legs and his in mine, just so that we could sit down. After about and hour of singing like drunken fools Manuel started to touch my knee, and by the time we got to the house and went to bed he was on top of me. I don't know why I went through with it. It was awkward and I didn't like, but I never told him to stop. Now everytime I see him at school I don't know what to do, because I think that he really likes me and I know that I sent him the wrong message, I don't know what to do because know I have a girlfriend, I need some help, please, anyone just help me Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): Write him a short litter saying that what happened at the party wont happen again because you were drunk and allowed it to happen.You have a girl friend know and you really like her and you don't want the friendship you had before to change. Future wise less drinking, you really don't want an insident like that happening again. With all the drinking you were relaxed and half coherent, but you did know what was going on still and didn't say anything.
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reader, loving arms  +, writes (16 March 2009):
act friendly, the way you were before the 'night' and if he asked just say you're really not sure what happened but you're not looking to repeat the expierence with him or any other male. But you wish to continue the friendship.
good luck x x
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reader, Good Girl  +, writes (15 March 2009):
 Sometimes in their lives people sleep with people they don't mean to sleep with. This happens more often than you will think. Just let Manny know if he asks or if you want to clear the air, that you just are friends,unless you aren't. Don't worry too much, worrying causes more problems in relationships than rats, windows, and premature ejaculation.
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