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writes:There is this married man that keeps calling me. I don't understand why he wants to talk to me (he got my phone number through a friend) since we have nothing in common and the age level is too far apart. Well yes I do because he probably just wants sex from me but I'm not doing that!!!He has never hid the fact to me that he has a family and has had previous affairs from the first phone call! Wow what a stand up classy guy right? I've already made it clear from the first call that I don't condone what he is doing and he should be ashamed to be cheating on his wife with younger women. He thinks I'm some naive manipulative girl because he tries to put these thoughts in "my head" that it's better to have some fun now since im young and i should enjoy life with an experienced man. Pretty much all this B.S. nonsense. So I told him I have to go and hung up the phone. I'm not going to waste my time on this. I have only talked to him that one time (I didn't know the number or who it was till I picked it up and recognize who it was) and I told him that he has major issues. But he keeps calling me and texts me! I don't pick up but its getting to be annoying. What should I do, help!!! It's like he is desperate to cheat or something, what a pervert!
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (20 March 2009):
call his wife & tell her about this, if youi dont have her number why not ask this great friend of yours who gave him your number? failing that call around to his house, or threaten him with telling her the next time you hear from him.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (16 March 2009):
Well first off you should give your friend a slap for giving your number out. That is not smart and not safe.
The fact that you have friends who will hand out your number probably made him thing you are a bit young and easy to manipulate.
Next off you should tell him that you have saved all his texts and you know where he lives and if he doesn't leave you alone you are coming round while he is at work to show his wife.
If that doesn't work then tell him you are going to call the police. You don't have a country flag but I am guessing you are in a country where the local police will take this seriously and won't mind popping round to have a quiet word with him and tell him to stop it.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, 1perrito  +, writes (16 March 2009):
 I think you already know the answer to this.
If he keeps calling you, just call the local Polizei, Constibulary, or Sheriff. If he calls you on your Handy, don't erase his call and show them the number.
If he texts you, you got him. They will nail his a** for STALKING.
That is bull shit, don't let this guy bother you anymore.
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (15 March 2009):
 If it's your cell phone, I'd change numbers. This guy sounds like bad news and kudos for you to standing up for yourself. Then I'd change friends, since you said this older stranger got your number through a friend???
You need to do something now cause if this continues it's only gonna get worse - he'll keep calling and texting you, then eventually he'll probably start to stalk you, find your house, etc. Sorry to sound scary, but just being honest.
Good luck :)
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