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writes:I am 20 years old and started dating a new guy about a month ago. We haven't had sex yet but I know it is going to happen soon. My problem is when I cum I squirt, the first time it happened I had never even heard of it and had to look it up online to see if it was normal. I few guys I know like it but I have talk to other guys and they thinks it is gross. I can control it if I dont let myself get really into it or if i more around alot. Should I tell him about it first or just have sex and let it happen? OR should I just not let myself get to the point of cumming until later. I really like him and think he is a great guy and I don't want to scare him off. DO guys like it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): I'm sorry, I've read your question over and over, and I don't understand the "problem." LOL...
Seriously, you're a man's wet dream and a woman's goal... epsecially if you can control it. But, if you're feeling that self-conscious about it, just ask him, in a seductive tone (maybe playing with his hair), "Do you like it when a girl squirts during sex?" If you're in a restaurant, his next response might be, "Check please!" :-D
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reader, kaylynn  +, writes (18 March 2009):
 I heard guys love it and likes a special "power" or something.
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reader, Djmclucas113 +, writes (16 March 2009):
 Well I think most guys would like it just cuz we know that u had an orgasim & ur not faking it or anything now I personally have not met a girl that squirts but I would like to try it. But not all guys will probably like it so I say u should talk to him about it to see if he minds but I think that he probably won't most guys wouldn't
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reader, Harry Castle  +, writes (15 March 2009):
 This subject always brings out the "lad" in blokes!
Yes, we like it.
Yes, it makes us feel good bringing you off like that.
Yes, we like it on pornos, too.
But in pornos, I will bet that most, if not all, are peeing; look carefully at the colour. Yellow? It's pee!
Your genuine squirting will be clear and contain no urine. It is seminal fluid, generated in your urethra sponge, just behind your g-spot.
Back to your question - yes, you should tell him. If he doesn't know what I've told you, explain carefully that you are not peeing yourself and it only happens when you are having an intense orgasm brought about by his expertise.
Get him to stimulate yur g-spot for you, so you can demonstrate; it's on the front wall of your vagina, in about an inch or two and feels like a rough patch of skin.
It may bulge a little as it fills with fluid due to your arousal, too.
Tell him that if he can make you cum this way, and also rub your clit at the same time, he will be giving you two earth-shattering orgasms at the same time......you don't need me to tell you how proud that will make him feel, and ready to do it time and time again!
Harry.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (15 March 2009):
 I think alot of guys relate this to porn and mostly love it lol :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): What a show off you are. Consider yourself lucky.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): Hot Hot Hot. I had a relationship with a girl that could squirt and the sex was amazing. I had seen it in porn alot and thought it was amazing to see. I had no idea she could do it until we were having sex and she told me to pull out. Man was I shocked, she soaked me. I agree with the other post relax and enjoy it. Guys love it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): Honey that is not a problem. Take it for a guy we LOVE when a girl can squirt. Any guy I know would love to have sex with a squirter. As for the guys you talked to who didnt like it , either they have not been lucky enough to experince it or they are not real men. You should never hold it back, guys want to please a women. It makes us feel REAL good if we make her squirt. Im sure the minute you squirt your new guy will be so in aww over you.
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (15 March 2009):
 You lucky girl! Most girls would kill to do that during sex!
It won't put your boyfriend off. He loves you and if he loves you enough to have sex with you he won't care what happens aslong as you both enjoy yourself!
I think it will turn him on even more. I'm friends with alot of guys and they are always going on about how they made their girlfriends "squirt". They think of it as quite an achievment!
I wouldn't tell him. Let him find out when it happens. I don't think he will mind one bit. Just relax before sex and enjoy it!
Good luck
Livia
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