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I love my best friend but he thinks I have feelings for our other friend!

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Question - (15 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i knoe you probably get a 1000 questions like this a day but i just need some advice... here goes..

well when i started college 3 years ago i started hangin around with these two lads ( i am a girl) so me and one of the lads became really close and did everything together, i liked this lad and once we even shared a kiss. Nothing happened and we grew apart. We are still mates but we are not as close as we used to be as he is into traveling now.

So the other lad that i hung around with was the complete opposite to me and the lad i shared a kiss with ( you keeping up) lol but over the past 6 months i have really got to know and really like this lad.

The only problem is he is one of my best friends and he is so quite and not like usual lads ( only after one thing) he never had a girlfriend and i think he still a virgin. Not that this is a problem i just feel maybe he feels threatned.

I really want to tell him that i like him but i dont no how he will react. He thinks i still have feelings for out other friend but i really dont. I am so confused i bet i sound like all the other helpless people lol!

Thanks in advance for answering!

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A male reader, Djmclucas113 United States +, writes (15 March 2009):

Djmclucas113 agony auntWell from what I can understand I think that u should tell him that u like him. If he is as shy as u say he then doing that should help I used to be one of those guys. If a girl told me that she liked me and I had even a little bit of interest in that girl I would try to move in so I say take the chance

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