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anonymous
writes:Please offer some insight I am confused.I am a bisexual,I only kissed a woman and -I am not open about it, only with a few close friends. Since before christmas, I felt a connection with a coworker she is woman a married woman, and I am a single woman.I really feel a strong connection like I have never felt before -it's like we both know what were thinking and feeling.. Knowing she is married and I like her too much to confuse her, and I look to be the one that gets hurt in the end.. I stoped making the long eye contact with her- I would look say hi and thats it, letting her know friends only.Now I feel she is pursuing me- and its harder not to fall, and cave in- I feel like she is having the same thoughts as me - but is scared. I have asked her out and its yes than no- it's like pulling teeth - she finally said yes, we had a good time her son,her and i.Now there is a new problem, a girl named cassie and her boyfriend sit beside me. Cassie and the woman I like seem to be good friends. Well, I feel like theres a scheme going on involving those three and me-Last week while the woman i liked shocked me by standing close and wiggled her ass right at me- and I tried not to look - so help me god I tried but it was so-- darn enthralling I could not help it - well cassies boyfriend noticed her and I, and I heard him say I saw u wiggle your butt and the direction it was pointed at, and someone else noticed too.. Well, at work this last friday,was terrible. I honestly thought I was goint to faint. Ok so I call for help on a problem with my computer, I get Cassie,I say hi, she turns around so fast and gives me a look like I turned her on- and so I am telling her the problem and to make it easier I said hold on I will get the app ID when Cassies Boyfriend real loud goes you too quit flirting with each other and do some work. I was like omg - it was so loud and we sit by all the poeple who gossip bad. Now I look over at cassie and she is giving her boyfriend the shut up look and I go back and look at my computer and my face was red and I felt like I was going to get sick. After awhile - knowing I had to say somthing I was like ah--- ah=--- um---- sturded then got out the app. Then stared at my computer My face 20 min after I felt was red- I felt embarssed, scared, ashamed- I was freaking out... I would not look away from my computer.. Cassie asked me if I pushed a # on my phone and I said freeked out way look all I have done is just sit here and look at my computer.. When cassie got up 2 min later, the woman I like comes around , cassie behind her , and she is looking at me.. By this point I feel a cross between - puking and fainting and freaked out.. As I said I just stared at my computer.. The woman I liked came around like 3 times, I know she was looking at me..The rest of the night and still I am freaking out, not as bad..Heres my questions ?Please help.1. What do I do, how do I act when I go back to work?2. Before and after cassie - I felt the girl I liked really did -does like me - or is just the attention that she likes?3. How should I acted around cassie - and does cassie have an attraction to me?4. The girl I like, I cant help but feel mad because I feel like she stabbed me in the back, was this the scheme- or is she trying to help me - 5. any advice...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): well, i should start off by saying i am a minor. 16 goin on 17 and im also bi. i knw u think i mite not have experience but a similar situation to urs happend to me...i thgt she was into me cuz she would always look at my lips wen we talked, she wuld stare at me, and at times i felt harassed by her. anyways now i still "talk" to her ....but knw i feel like i was also a game to her. be careful cuz wen u doubt or have dat feeling dat dey r playin u..most of da time ur rite. love is clean-even if ur bi- love is somethin dat doesnt make u feel embarrased. love is completeness
derz also a possibility dat she jst dnt wanna accept herself but who knws...anywayz jst stay away frm her cuz i knw da pain u will end up-if not are-goin thru
best of luck...
p.s. accept urself for wat u r
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reader, barnabus +, writes (22 March 2009):
O my I had to read your story because it sounds so much like what I have and am going through.Be very careful.. I dont know how well you know her but you know how women are. The co-worker that I was seeing said she loved me and she is married to a man but when it came down to it she has and continues to stab me in the back and says crap that isnt true because she is either embarrassed or im just a game to her but turns around a whispers in my ear that im the love of her life and my job is at jeopardy over her. I wish i could give you some good advice other then be very careful but you could be being played like i am. If you feel scared and have allot of anxiety when you are at work because of her you better back off quick its that red flag going off in your head telling you that you are in trouble once again be careful but I do hope things work out okay for you..
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): um ok odd post ...anyway in order:
how would you like to act? suggest just being normal.
she is female - probably the attention - stop reading things into nothing.
normaly is best - ask cassie to find out
possibly - she good be related to dr. evil. suggest trying to rip mask off?
hmm advice... ok So i just suggest you are normal and stop reading things into nothing. Stop guessing, just ask them out on a coffee or to a lesbian party or something - just stop guessing.
I also think your English is odd for someone so old (but that doesn;'t matter).
Star.x.
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