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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My ex and I have been going out again, nothing exclusive for a few months now. I have a lot of trust issues with this guy as he has cheated on me before. Ever since we've been back together he has tried really hard to gain my trust back and he has become my best friend again. Recently, when i was drunk (he wasnt) i was crying to him saying that i couldn't do it all over again if he was going to cheat on me with another friend of mine. He started crying too and said that he was no longer that guy and that he cared about me too much to do something like that. When i asked him what makes it any different this time he said it's because he's in love with me. Do guys just say that to get out of a rough spot with a girl or do they actually mean it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): I think he has learnt a lesson from cheating but the bigger question is about you.... can YOU really truly ever love this guy and 100% trust him ever again? Don't give yourself a prison sentence if the answer is no just because he has 'changed'.
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reader, Good Girl  +, writes (15 March 2009):
 I agree with anonymous male reader, trust your heart. Your heart always wants what's best!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): well if he was in love with you, he would have not cheated... HOWEVER he may not have been in love with you when he did cheat, but after cheating and realising what he lost.. he may have falling in love with you because he realised that your worth much more then that and realised what he lost - which is love. I hope that makes sence...be carefull and make your decision with your heart... Goodluck!
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