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writes:hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now.. him and my friend don't get on at all, they really hate each other and are always at each others necks..! on friday at school we were sat in the hall talking and my friend came and sat with us.. my friend started saying things about my boyfriend and i was just ignoring her because she normally does it and we normally don't care about what she says, she said something out of order and then i told her to stop it.. my boyfriend said some rather nasty things about her and i told him to pack it in!.. he stormed off and is now texting me saying things like "don't his feelings matter, because i don't seem to care what she say's to him. and i never retaliate when she does something that hurts his feelings".. and he knows full well that they do..its really upsetting me and now he is refusing to see me and is ignoring my texts.. i really love him.. i have never felt this way about anybody before.. what should i do?! please help xxx
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reader, Shadowplay +, writes (15 March 2009):
It is probably jealousy....of each other as they both want you too themselves
Its sad that they cant get on but he seems to be very immature about it!!!maybe try and get your friend to speak to him - clear the air. especially if he carries on to act like that.
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reader, Johnnyboy03  +, writes (15 March 2009):
 Your friend is jealous of your boyfriend. Probably because he gets your time. You need to tell her to leave him alone. Put yourself in his shoes. You are hanging out with him and his best friend or whatever is always insulting you when you guys are together. How would that make you feel? Would you be upset he he continued to allow it to happen?
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reader, anomynousgirl +, writes (15 March 2009):
hey, maybe if your friend doesnt respect your feelings towards your bf then maybe theyre not tat good a friend, or maybe shes just worried tat you'll get hurt. i noe it must be hard for you because on is your friend and another is your bf... your stuck in the middle. but if you reely love tis boy then you hav to tell your friend how you feel about him and how important they both are to you and dnt make you choose out of the two of them because its impossible to choose, you should also tell your bf tat he shouldnt say things about your friend either and tat he is free to like and dislike hueva he wants but tell him to take into account tat she is your friend and you would like it if they at least try to get on :) i hope tis helped and hope it gets better between them xx
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