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writes:My ex wants me back again we split 6 months ago after two years of on/off. He treated me quite badly never spent no time with me hardly. Went out drinking with his mates. No communication bout nothing. Basically he came to my house. I cooked his tea. Ran his bath and looked after him.with sex thrown in too! We split the last time with him saying he didn't have enough time to spend with me and that he didn't want anyone else he loved me and i was the best thing to happen to him! So 6 months ive being trying to get on with my life but thought bout him everyday and wished things were different. Now he comes back saying that he know what a shit he was to me and how he hurt me. He also said that he has been out with two other girls but he kept comparing them to me all the time.and didn't sleep with them with he swears on his sons life. I haven't been with anyone and have only just started getting my life back on track as i was so hurt and totally in love with him. I agreed to meet him yesterday to have a good talk and to get things all off my chest with i didn't get chance to say 6 months ago but he let me down instead he went out watched the football and said it was hard to get away! Basically hes gone out drinking with his mates all day all night. So i was left devastated crying my heart out last night cos i thought he had changed and that he meant what he said this time.wants to move in with me. Get married. Hes turned 30 and has grown up! Hes very good at the whole charming bit. Why do i fall for it every time? I'm so lonely on my own and i seem to cling to him 4 affection. Hes messed my head up so many times! But i still seem to go back 4 more whats wrong with me? I told him to fuck off and leave me alone last night. He didn't reply but i no he will today with all his sorry. How can someone treat u like that if they love u. I'm just crushed inside and keep going over and over it in my head! What do i do? Help.
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reader, SullMA60  +, writes (15 March 2009):
I'm sitting in the same boat (HS sweetie got me pregnant and broke up after miscarriage and won't call back).
It's easier to see this situation from another point of view and just tell you it's time to move on. He doesn't seem to have respect for you at all, he's blowing you off, not returning your phone calls. Think about what you would feel toward someone to do that to them?? The funny thing is that they do this and we seem to push more and get hurt more.
Why will he call you today and what will he say? WRite a letter to him and you can eitehr not ever give it to him and just get your feelings out or if you really want to, (though I don't think it would help) give it to him and just leave it be...
Be the better person and walk away from this jerk, you can do much better, you deserve much better.
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