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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i,d like lot of guys over the year.and got rejected i am fat,short,with a fat round face.were glasses.they don,t like me.may be its me thats wrong i am the reason they don,t like me that way.i am not type of girl to do my nails and painted them and put loads of make up,to were short skirts,or see thru clothes or low cut tops nor string bikinis.i am just not girly type.often wish i was more glamours so guys like me.be more confident and sexy.i feel more at home in pair of work boots and coveralls and bean hat,with no make upnot very sexy.and i am so social life is nil.no friends never had a boyfriend.i spend the day doing physical work. Is this the reason why I don't have a guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): The things you think are attractive in a guy are not all the same things they might like in a woman. You refer to yourself as fat and short and round-faced for example. Too fat can be a problem sometimes, but lots of men dont get turned off by things like "short and roundfaced." Some men like women who don't push as hard to be prettied-up in public too. (Ever hear a guy complain, "she's too high-maintinence"?) Honestly the glammed-up girls do attract more men initally but it's not always what keeps them. You don't have to change everything about who you are. But if you feel like how you present yourself is the problem, then maybe could change it SOME without totally betraying your real self just to sell an image?
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (15 March 2009):
 The reason you don't have a boyfriend is because you have no self-esteem, you obviously hate the way you are and any potential guy you meet, (which from what you say isn't very often) is instantly put off because you are so negative about yourself.
I think if you don't meet new people and have no kind of social circle of friends I'm sorry but you are very unlikely to find a boyfriend.
Get out into the world join some clubs or groups of people with similar interests and meet people!
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