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Boyfriend of my g/f's best friend keeps coming on to me!

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Question - (15 March 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 April 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm 22 and my girlfriend's 21. Me and my girlfriend often socialise with her best friend (who's 23) and her fiance (he's 24).

For the past few weeks, whenever my girlfriend and her best friend go the bathroom if we're out anywhere, her fiance has been trying to "come on" to me. He's been asking me about my penis size, and saying he'll dump her for me.

I've told him no and that I love my girlfriend, but he insists I'm playing hard to get and just laughs it off. He's even texted me asking "can i see a picture of ur cock please, u make me feel so hot n horny!" and "let's go for a drink 2gether"

I can't tell my girlfriend about this, or her best friend, as I fear they'll never believe me. If I did tell them, they'd think I was trying to break up the relationship and I don't want that to happen. I think he'd deny it if asked.

I still socialise, but feel a bit more worried about being around my girlfriend's best friend due to the way her fiance acts.

What can I do and how should I deal with this?

Jeff

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009):

I think this question could be genuine, there have been situations like this before, so I won't throw doubt onto it at all.

Don't really know what to say, other than the situation is just odd. The guy needs help, and fast.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009):

Plan A: I think you should record him asking one of his sexual questions or request. You need to tell your girl friend and bring the evidence to her. Her friend diserves to now that the marriage shes getting into is with a guy who wants to cheat on her, even if its with a guy. Or plan B: You can tell your girl friend and divise a plan. Ask them out for a get together at a retaurant and bring your cell phone. Call her at the table when she goes to the bath room with her friend and he's most likely going to be flirt with you or you could bring up the issue and he'll say the rest. Plan C: You can invite him over and your girlfriend and maybe her friend can be in the next room listening to your conversation of her fiance. I think if your not going to do any of these things, he'll marrie her and it will get even harder to convince your girl friend that her friends husband is hitting on you, and he may even start to advance with getting more touchy feely.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009):

haha this is great! Just let the guy know your not gay or bi! Or like act really straight and like call him a fuc*ing fag*ot or something. I get really scared when straight guys do that to me.

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A female reader, Shadowplay United Kingdom +, writes (15 March 2009):

Make it clear you arent bisexual. you probably should tell your girlfriend - if that is who she is marrying - she should know. no one likes to be the bearer of bad news!!!!but you cant really just sit on this. she will know more what to do about the situation too...

If it somehow came about that your girlfriend found out you'd kept it from her too, that could be very bad!! hope it sort okay.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (15 March 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntI don't believe you Jeff, in fact I think you are our phantom poster!

She'd have to believe you if you had the text messages to prove it.

Why don't you take Emily's advise she gave you yesterday and go into fiction writing!

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