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*ureliuslover
writes: ok this is my problem. i think i'm in-love with the wrong guy.he has a girlfriend that is far away -like long distance relationship- and the girl really loves him and he loves her (i think). And the worst, he's older than me about 10 years... I think someone told him that i have feelings for him. Since last week, he started greeting me like hi and hello not like before. Now, what do you think? Is he just making fun of me, just being flirty, or wants to get in touch with me? What do you think???All the advices will be much appreciated?=):+:¤...thanks...¤:+:
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reader, aureliuslover +, writes (24 July 2009):
aureliuslover is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks sam..
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reader, AskSam +, writes (21 July 2009):
Oh hon,I feel your pain but,you need to realise this guy is attatched, and just move forward onto bigger and better things, so what if someone told him you liked him, he probably knew anyway. And if he loves his girlfirend and he loves her, you should respect that. Which by the way your talking you already do :) So with all my best of wishes and irish luck.Move on and find another unattached and believe me you will be happy without all that mess, if he was to leave her for you whats to say he wouldnt leave you for another. And the other poor girl, who lives so far away deserves her chance at happiness with this guy too. These situations are always messy and nearly all parties involved get burned. So get out there girl and get yourself a goodun in good time!All my lovesam
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reader, some gurl +, writes (21 July 2009):
Hi,
i do not think he takes you seriously, of course i can not tell for sure, but being flirty after knowing your feelings toward him, does not seem very right, maybe he is just trying to make it less embarrassing or something. anyhow, it is just too early to start analyzing and thinking.., give yourself some time..
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