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writes:i'm a 18 year old guy, im fed up of sleeping around and really want to settle!theres this guy i want to try a relationship with, we have known each other for 4 years and he is just turning 20 in a few months.the only problem is he thinks im going to tell him that im not ready for a serious relationship.how can i let him know that i am ready? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009): hello,, maybe he's the one who's not ready. Some people find it easier to put it on the other person and avoid confrontation of the whole lets get serious issue.
Thats exactly the type of things I used to say... right along with ... I just see you as a friend.
He is not ready or does not want one with you... at least not right now.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (21 July 2009):
 Tell him the proof is in the pudding. Ask him to give it a try.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionive told him and he still has doubtbs.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (21 July 2009):
So tell him already. What's the big deal?
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