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writes:So is it possible to have a real relationship without sex? Im 16 and Im a virgin and in a great relationship but I just don't see the point in relationships if you're not gonna do anything else. I mean what good is a teenage relationship? So my real question is, is it possible to call a relationship a relationship without sex?Thanks you guys Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell thanks u guys i love hearing ur opinions and relax busyo4 im 16.
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reader, shna  +, writes (21 July 2009):
 its a gud question . . . iv had four main relationships in my teenage life an three of them were without sex and the current one im in has lastesd the longest and it the happiest relationship by far ! mabye you have a point but i have friends who havnt had sexually relationship with there boyfriends and its lasted one friend of my lasted with her boyfriend on a on off period of three years without any sexual intercourse . . . . . i supose it really has to do with your sex drive and your personality x
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009): I believe that the point in teenage relationships should not be to explore sexually and find someone with whome to "go all the way," but to find yourself and who fits you. To find the person who best suits you.. with the most befitting personality, style, background, opinions, morals, outlooks, values, goals, etc. Dating around should help you rule out the people that you don't want to waste your time with later in life. Once you find a good type for yourself then you can find the right person within that type. And once you have found that person, most likely later in life, out of high school, you can begin your sexual orientation. But i believe that it's best not to begin that on a person who doens't really matter to you.
~Sy.
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reader, busy04  +, writes (21 July 2009):
 Yes it is possible.
Sex doesn't mean relationship & relationship doesn't mean sex. Though sometimes as a relationship grows & you feel that you are with the right person, etc. you may decide to have sex.
But yes, you can have a real relationship without sex. My boyfriend & I dated for 6 years before getting into bed together. And we had a wonderful, fantastic relationship/friendship before that & we still do after.
No offense but your age range is a little young for that right now.
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