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41-50,
*ay
writes:My son's father and i have both moved on after he ran off with a lady of 40 and married her , my son is now 7 and i am 29 and his dad is 27 thing is i'm seeing someone else and since he came by the other day we realised our feelings are real strong, he only married this woman for money but tonight he called asking if i'd consider him and i hanging out for a romantic evening to see how we really feel for each other , i no my feeling for him are real strong and we have a bond that's unfair to our partners and the worse part is when my boyfriend and his wife see us together they see right through us and our feelings are to obvious. this women knew we were still together when she came into the picture but i guess i wasn't going to tolerate a cheating man . what should i do pls help .
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reader, Fay +, writes (23 July 2009):
Fay is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell i decide to make the move and told him it's tempting but i'm in a happy place and i can't do it but he said he believes that if u love someone enough to let them go and wait for them to return it obviously doesn't work that way so he'll keep coming after me no matter how i feel about it , he wants me back told him he made a choice long ago and that's that he must stay there i've moved on . besides i need to give my best in the relationship i'm in.
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reader, busy04  +, writes (22 July 2009):
 If he was not committed to you in the beginning, what's makes you thinks he's changed? And all over money? Please!
You said you moved on, then keep moving.
What should you do? Leave him alone...live your life with your new man & be happy.
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