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writes: Im 17 yrs old and pregnant with a 19 yr old guy i've been dating for almost 2yrs. Hes very active in both mine and the babys life and wanted to keep it as soon as he found out. because he is so active though, he wants to be involved in all the doctor visits i go to and i'm not sure if they will allow him to be there because i have to fully undress and i'm still a minor while he's almost grown. Is it obvious that he cant accompany me or would it be discrimination? i mean, he is the babies father. he wants to hear heart beats too.... Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, sxcbabiegal +, writes (3 February 2010):
I'm sure that he has a right to be there if he is the babies biological father. The doctors aren't there to make judgements on how old you both are, their there to take care of you and your baby and make sure you are comfortable. If you are that unsure you could ask your doctor, I'm sure your babies father won't get into any trouble for attending the visits with you.
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