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writes:So I been hanging out with this girl that I work with. I’m totally crazy about her, we pretty much got hired around the same time 6 months ago. A couple of weeks ago we met after work to have dinner and we later did “stuff” in my car. Fast forward to last week and we had sex at my house. This weekend we just hungout and did BF and GF stuff i.e. went out to eat, went to a bookstore, and held hands etc. even though we are not going out. Now fast forward to this work week and she does is ignoring me and avoid my calls, she won’t even have lunch with me like we normally do everyday and won’t even let me pick her up after school anymore. I’m not sure if I did anything wrong.i guessing she needs her space? I’m totally confused
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reader, acbb +, writes (21 July 2009):
acbb is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys
well, in the beginning she asked me if i wanted to date her or have sex with her. i told her i wanted to date her, SHE tells me she would rather have sex with me than date me. WTF :/ now its really weird at work, she IS worried that i won't act professional but i will NEVER tell any of my coworkers what we did. i wonder if there is any hope for our future...love sucks!
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reader, acbb +, writes (21 July 2009):
acbb is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys
well, in the beginning she asked me if i wanted to date her or have sex with her. i told her i wanted to date her, SHE tells me she would rather have sex with me than date me. WTF :/ now its really weird at work, she IS worried that i won't act professional but i will NEVER tell any of my coworkers what we did. i wonder if there is any hope for our future...love sucks!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 July 2009):
You need to talk to her.
It could be that she is really scared that since she had sex with you before you were even going out, that you are going to think she's slutty and tell everyone at work.
Go and tell her that you want to be with her and that you can keep things professional at work so it won't affect either of you there.
Ask her out and let her know that you care about her.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, boo22 +, writes (21 July 2009):
 Hi i'd have to discreetly take her to one side and ask her whats going on and if you've done anything to offend that you're unaware of. Be brave and put yourself out of your misery. good luck x
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