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writes:Okay, so here's the deal.Around late June, my girlfriend asked me to hold onto a piece of sheet music for her because she didn't want to lose it.She would ask for it a few times to practice, seeing as how her choir class would be performing the song during Graduation.Well, graduation came and went (we both walked the stage, Jun. 18) and I held onto that piece of music.I thought she'd never need it again, so I threw it in a pile of old school papers.About a week ago, she ends up telling me that she needs it back because she's having an audition and she wants to sing that song (For Good, Wicked).After searching frantically, I can't find the song.My best bet is that my mom threw out that pile of papers.I told her I can print her out a copy; no, it HAS to be her own.Now, she's saying I'm an ***, a f***ing idiot and to never talk to her again.She said that she told me a while ago to give it back, but I don't remember.And when I told her why she didn't remind me, she said, oh, so since you forgot, I guess I'm not important to you!So. . . What the hell can I do?I swear this is ridiculous.Is this really all my fault?EDIT: She just broke up with me over this.What the hell. She says that she can never trust me.Please, someone please tell me this doesn't seem a tad bit over the line.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009): thats a huge over-reaction. i can't understand where she's coming from at all. i mean what's wrong with getting another sheet printed. she's very odd!
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (21 July 2009):
 You should have told her to look after the sheet of music herself! What a weirdo! You're better without her! X
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reader, jaime90  +, writes (21 July 2009):
 i think this is a complete over reaction. it seems like there may be some resentment there? have similar things happened before? to me it kind of seems like she was looking for an excuse to get out of your relationship. But its likely she doesn't really want to break up with you.. People say things they don't mean when they are upset/angry. but name calling to me is completely unacceptable! you shouldn't let her call you those things, its so disrespectful. Maybe you should think about if you want to be with someone who is going to put you down when you haven't done anything to deserve it.
If she wanted the sheet back that badly before she would have asked for it and persisted until she got it back. Also, she was the one who wanted you to hold it for her, you cant be responsible for what happened to it after she had used it.
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