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writes: i am thinking of asking the guy i like out and i think he will say yes as i know he likes me as well. i was thinking that we could hang out at my house as i know neither of us has a lot of money. is this okay to do for a first date or would it be considered two people just hanging out instead of two people being on a date?
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reader, kurtyz  +, writes (21 July 2009):
 yea of course! i would certainly prefer a girl asking me to come to her house. i think you should go out the night before though and rent some scary movies and buy some pop corn and you could make it like a cheap cinema! you should especially do this if you are feeling a bit weary about bringing him too your house. so goodluck and i almost forgot the main thing have fun and relax enjoy yourself.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (21 July 2009):
 Sounds fine to me.
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reader, hijacked_dignity +, writes (21 July 2009):
 Hey. Whatever you want to do on your first date is considered a first date! There are tons of things you can do at your house as a first date. You guys can make a meal together or play video games or have a movie night. You could go to a park or something, or maybe take a stroll around town! There are a lot of inexpensive date ideas around the house. Now I wouldn't suggest sex just yet, haha. So try to just make things light and fun! Good luck.
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reader, The old Man? +, writes (21 July 2009):
 First of all, I want to commend you for thinking of the fact of money being tight. That's a cool gesture on your behalf!
I think you could pull this off. When you say "just two people hanging out", that's not always a bad thing. It gives you both time to talk and get to know each other, with no expectations.
If the weather is nice, perhaps go for a walk. If you reach for his hand, he'll get the hint in a big hurry that he's not just some chump to pass the time with.
Some of us guys like the simple things too!!
Good luck to the both of you. You sound like a very thoughtful person.
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reader, coolo467 +, writes (21 July 2009):
no aslong as you dont have sex u guys are gong to chill out yeah its ok u can kiss and stuff but no sexual stuff
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