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writes:I broke up with my live in partner of the last 4 years 4 months ago and I'm still get pangs of pain. We have had barely any contact over the last 4 months. We did speak once and he said he was in as much pain as I was but he didn't want to try again. I have got a lot better but I am wondering how much longer will this pain go on for. I know there is no going back as too much has happened. He is away working in Europe for the next few months which is good really as we won't bump into each other but on the other hand it will make him forget all about me.Does he feel what pain as I do and when will I be ok?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009): I don't think its possible to forget someone of four years, but if you mean his feelings for you, that depends if he chooses to move on and realize it is over, which goes the same to you. You have to stop wondering "does he still think about me". The more you leave "him" out of the picture, the easier it will be for you to move on.
I don't know when you will be ok. It wont be instantly that's for sure. Fours years is a long time to have been with someone, but you still have the rest of your life ahead of you. With the willpower, acceptance, and giving yourself time you will move on and heal. TIme heal all wounds. He's in europe so don't stay sulking. Get out there and make yourself better.
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reader, good.man  +, writes (21 July 2009):
I think, if you both are feeling pain, then it means you can't live without each other. You both need to understand each others. Otherwise what will happen, you will feel pain continuous manner, there is no end of this thing, you know very well. I think, may be there is little misunderstanding, because of it you both had decided to live without each other. Try to talk to him and tell what you think about your relationship.
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