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writes:I want to know the truth about anal sex. does it hurt. and ive heard that you can poo, or there may be remains of poo on the condom after withdrawal, is this true???
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2009): I tried anal a few times and it hurt TERRIBLY the first time and that put me off somewhat. The second time, it was plain sailing and I loved it. The third time, it hurt a little to begin with but became mind-blowing. The warm tingly feelings around the anus the next couple of days were wonderful but this soon wore off and I ended up with spots of blood in my panties for the next day or so plus constant anal itching. I also found that farts just escaped without me being aware of them. I ended up with hemmarhoids for ages after. The itching subsided when I got cream for my grapes but my anus has never felt right since, like it's puckered or something. Anal sex has not been good for me!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): I have always been fascinated by anal sex. I tried it a time or two when I was much younger and it hurt like hell. I was never able to take more than the head and even that was agonizing. However, since then I have had several partners who have played with my anus. Inserting a finger while giving oral, or rimming me. I absolutley LOVE the feeling of having my anus touched and played with. Over the past many months, I have been experimenting with my anus. I have used a dildo and butt plug to learn about how it works and how to keep it from being painful. It's all about taking it way slow and using tons of lube. When I say slow, I mean like 5 minutes just to get the entire penis inserted into the anus. After practice, I was able to insert a dildo or butt plug into my anus without any pain at all. I have been dying to try anal again since using toys to learn how to do it and being able to stop or take them out if there is any pain. Finally, tonight I decided I was ready to take a penis in my ass. My boyfrind and I had sex for a while, he stimulated my anus, inserted a finger and got me begging for his penis. I was bent over the side of the bed, laying flat. He was behind me. We lubed his penis up with a ton of lube and he alse rubbed it all over my ass and anus. As he began to insert his penis in my anus I reached behind me and took hold of it. Now I was in control of how fast or slow his penis was inserted and able to back it out if it hurt. It took about 5 minutes of slight pressure and extreme patience. Before I knew it I felt my anus relax and almost suck the penis up into me. It did not hurt in the least bit. It felt so god for me. I am a fan for life! I can not cum from vaginal intercourse without stimulating my clit. From anal, I had a huge screaming orgasm. Just start early and prepare yourself before you actually try it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009): i loved it being in a womans asshole is like being one with her for real.conquering her totally when her hair is down her back and you see your c*ck in her anus its mind blowing.thanx.
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reader, LeighLeigh  +, writes (22 July 2009):
 Ok so for the first few times it does hurt, but make sure you use ALOT of lube and after a while it starts to feel good.Make sure he plays with your clit or use a vibrator to help you feel stimulated.If you do feel pain use a safe word or just say stop, what ever works.Good luck!!
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (22 July 2009):
Ok, I've been having anal since college, and all with the same woman. She was the one who suggested it, and we worked our way up to me getting my dick inside her. IT took seveal days, lots of KY jelly (lube has come along way since then - but that's our favorite). When we hava anal - about once a week, she asks for it about 1/2 the time. I like it when she's on her period, as she usually very aroused at that time. After the first week or so, she learned to come from anal and comes REALLY hard from it - far harder than from normal sex. As for poo, never encountered any... no mess ever.As for pain, yes, occasionally she can't relax and we have to abort the effort. It takes concentration... but sometimes she can slide me in w/o any effort. It's great.Now, having said that, every woman is different - you might like it, you might not. If you don't you are NOT obligated to do it... and can take it off the menu!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): I see a lot of people have answered this already but like 3 days ago my boyfriend wanted to try it so i let him we had sex first so his Penis was all wet and to me it felt like 3 inches went in he said it was just the tip but i started kicking and screaming and crying and lost my breath of coarse he immediately pulled out i cried for a while he felt terribly and held me all night then a couple days later he honestly wanted to try again even after it hurt so bad but he was extremely slow and gentle and it worked or whatever it felt incredibly discussing to me. their was nothing on his Penis as i was afraid of that too and he said he liked it but loved my pussy way better so i'm glad he likes my pussy better and that i got it over with so we won't be wondering any more
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): well from personal experience.. it did not hurt cause I was with someone who took their time and took the time to make me feel good... as for POO... like they say "shit happens" but for the most part no. Due to the fact I know when I have to go to the bathroom.. (when its safe and when its not).. after coffee bad idea... later in the day.. ahh ok..
my point is... it has to do with personal choice and intamacy... what is right for you and him.
any other questions pm me.
good luck
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reader, wherestheinstructions? +, writes (22 July 2009):
It's not for everyone, but you definitely be put off it for life if you don't use lube, lube and more lube.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): Most of my friends who've tried it said it hurt like mad, and yes I've heard some horror stories about large amounts of poo. I would try being fingered back there first to see how you like it. If you enjoy the sensation then you might want to try it, or even just enjoy the fingering and not move farther.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): Yes, you most certainly may poo upon withdrawal of the penis. On the other hand, it may be a perfectly clean operation. If it's done right, with care, it may be uncomfortable but not painful. However, why bother if you have a perfectly functioning pussy?
I can understand experimentation for its own sake and I reckon it's fine to try just to say you've done it but just know that the anus was patently NOT designed to be fucked - it's an exit, not an entrance and prolonged and regular anal intercourse will result in loss of tightness, to a degree you may have to eventually use a tampon to keep the shit from falling out. Seriously.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): ill be honest and say that me and my boyfriend have tried anal sex, but ill also be honest and say that it feels horrendous! first time we tried it, i was in agony and he only got like a third of the way in and he had to pull out. it hurt to 'poo' and sit down for a few days after! but then i was fine, we tried again about a week later, i knew what to expect this time. so it wasnt as bad! but it still hurt, and he wasnt in long, he used a condom and embarrassingly enough there was poo on the condom, but its normal? its like sucking your finger without it getting wet? we tried it again a few days after and ever since then, although i dont think its the best feeling in the world, its bareable and if your relaxed and lubed enough! it doesnt hurt too much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): Will.. "poo" indeed comes from your bumhole so yes there could be remains of it after withdrawl but as for "pooing" during entercourse, I don't know for a fact, but i don't see how you could if there is a penis where it comes out..
Some people say it hurts like hell and others absolutely can't get enough of it. I suppose though it would hurt most people at first but you can use lubes and start slow and get used to it until you like it...
I do love the wide range of questions on this site...
~Sy.
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reader, TheAgonyAunt +, writes (22 July 2009):
 Well, from personal experience, it hurt. Alot.
I never had any problems with poo on the condom or anything, but if you got to the toilet an hour or so before hand, it may ease your mind.
A tip would be to use lots of lube because theres no natural lubrication in your bum.
Personally I didnt like it because it hurt and it felt plain weird.
But then again some people find it mind blowing, so I suppose it varies for some people.
Hope this helps.
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