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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am quite hurt and confused and would really appreciate any advice! Me and my boyfriend of six months broke up about a month ago but during that month we have been in contact every day, talking meeting up and even going away on a trip together! For the last week we have been together on a constant basis and he said he considers us back together. I should mention that it was him who ended the relationship and I have been distraught without him. Anyway, it is getting to me quite a bit that he seems distant and stuff with me and I'm terrified that he doesn't love me anymore. I kikcked up a fuss about it today and told him this, and I cried a lot. He said he didn't want to be dealing with the stress and ended it again!! I'm so confused about what to think because he's constantly going from one extreme to another..one day telling me he wants to marry me and I'm the only girl for him, and the next day being stand offish!
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reader, UnfinishedSymphony  +, writes (21 July 2009):
 I can only answer this question to some certain extent because I don't know exactly how strongly he feels towards you. I've had the same happen to me in the past. Its one of those horrible things, that you feel in time (because you care about him so much) you have to just accept its going to happen. One of those things where he comes and goes quite frequently and you feel you will have to get used to.But NO!Don't. Don't ever do that no matter how he feels towards you.You're a woman who always in my view should have the upper hand in most situations. You have to keep strong and remain focused, regardless of how much you feel about him. I'm not saying don't ever take him back (because chances are he will come back to you), just really think things through. For example if he turns up at your doorstep, don't let things happen immediately. Speak things through. If he cares about you as much as you do with him...things will just work themselves out.
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