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writes:i know this isnt my relationsip or anything! but i just cant help but worry, im only 17, i found out about 6 weeks ago that i was pregnant, and im now just 9 weeks gone, we was stupid, we made a mitake, not the best thing at this age, but me and my boyfriend are both working and are willing to bring up our child. i found out a few hours ago that one of my close friends had her baby in the early hours of the morning and she was a stillborn :( its such a sad thing to have to go through, but at just 17? and one of my other close friends early this week had a misscarraige! she was just 3 weeks pregnant, i cant stop crying over it, and worrying that its a terrible time at the minute for too many people. its such an emotional and tragic time for them, but i cant help but feel so low about myself, it seems like no ones meant to be happy in this world, its as if theres someone up there, something up there, that doesnt want anyone on earth to be happy, and they just ruin friendships/familys/lives! and i cant help but think that bad things come in threes! no matter what the situation is 'everything will be alright' is always the answer, but is 'everything' ever alright? is happiness really meant to be? is there ever a 'happy ever after' why is life suh a cruel thing? do you belive there really is a god? if there is, why does he let such terrible things happen?! i cant help but feel so negative! im really sorry for posting! i think i just needed to get it out. sorry xx Reply to this Question
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reader, Denizen +, writes (24 October 2009):
 Sorry to hear about all your unhappiness. You need to get your life back in order and you need support. I'm not sure whom you think you can talk to. It ought to be your parents but that isn't always an option. It could be your GP who can give confidential advice. You may have a close relation like an aunt or someone responsible you can go to.
Bringing up a child is a tremendous responsibility and you need help. You may not feel ready to have a child and will want to consider aborting. You have to share this problem now. You will have to sooner or later, and better sooner. You aren't the first this has happened to and won't be the last. Chin up! There can be a happy ending.
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