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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my ex girl of 3 years and 9 months broke up with me 2 months ago... and iv been hurting ever since... i didnt talk to her for a few weeks till she called me for a favor to which i bent over backwards to make her happy by doing it... although i shouldnt have. and that was a week ago. this last friday she called me up knowing i would find some were to go for the night to drink away my sorrow and called to c if she could come to the party aswell... and like an idiot i told her "sure" well i want this girl back so bad. but its just not going to happen... not now anyways. i need help getting over her... i work as a government contractor that works mon thu fri 5am-5pm and sat 5am-12 pm so going out to meet girls is hard especially for a 20 year old guy who cant go to bars and clubs to meet new people. im in a slump and i need advice to get over her... my few friends iv talked to have told me to just go sleep with other girls but its hard wen u only know like 5 and they are your friends girlfriends or your ex... some one out there has to know what i should do to move on i just dont know how... any advice will help...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009): is prbz a bad idea having any sort of contact with her, i kno how you feel, u might think going out with other girls or sleeping with others can help but it wont at all. At least you got work to keep you occupied, its only been 2months, your only 20 and just enjoy life, easier said than done i know.
The only thing thats going to heal you is time and having the support of friends. I know its hard not having contact with her but its much harder having contact with her knowing you cant be with her and maybe seeing her with others, it crushed me with my ex.
She knows you have a big heart and that you love her and shes playing on that, which is totally wrong of her. You have got to be selfish sometimes and tell her that if you cant be with eachother theres no contact, you have to care about yourself because in this world no1 else is. I hope you feel better soon but your just used to being with her, youll soon find normality without her in your life and thats where it will get easier.
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