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Just had sex for the first time and it was painless! I don't understand.

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Question - (21 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 July 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hi i am 15 and just lost my virginity today to my boyfriend. it was also his first time too. anyways he is like about 6 inches or something like that and when we had sex it didnt hurt me at all! i was already used to being fingered. anyways i didnt blead or anything and i guess my hymen had already been broken since i use tampons. the wierd thing is when i tried to use a dildo one time it hurt so bad that i could not even push it in much. but when we had sex he put it in ALL THE WAY! and it didnt hurt. is a hymen the same thing as a cherry? or is the cherry on the inside? anyways the main question is how come it was painless to me??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009):

Well said SATINDESIRE, I agree with her. At 15 you ought to focus on study instead of sex, hey use your hand instead or becareful always use condom also.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009):

u were probably sooooooo focudsed on "doing it" didn't think about pain

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009):

a cherry is the same as a hymen...u were probably soooo focused on "doing it" that u didn' think about it hurtonng

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009):

This is what happens when kids have sex, they don't even know there body well enough but they jump into doing it.

Look count yourself lucky that it didnt hurt cause i hear it does ALOT. Some ppl are born without a hymen others pop it some other ways ur normal but stop having sex and messing around or you'll end up preagnant and another statistic of the us. Focus on ur studies can't u see the economy is falling!

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