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writes:This might sound stupid to you all and i feel so by just asking.When i like a girl i want to see her often, only recently have i undertaken the two step forward, one step back rule. We've been on 8 dates and are sleeping together.Last thursday i did a really bad thing and looked desperate; she had class at 6:30 and i was to meet her and her friend for a drink when she gets off work at 5...so its 5;45 and i still havent heard from her, so i call with a bit of an attitude, turns out she had just gotten to the bar and was about to call me....i should have handled it better...i sent her a text then saying im not feeling the vibe, so her and her friend meet me at the bar where I was and I apologized briefly and we held hands all night and she would ask me, ‘are we ok’?Something didn’t feel right though, she’s mot an emotional person but yet she showed some…I think partially because her friend was there and I feel like I left a bad first impression with her.so i call her the next night to wish her luck as she had a sporting event in another state she was driving to...so i ended up leaving a message...i sent her a text the next day saying go team woo woo and she replied with texts throughout the day...i responded to her last text the next day, sunday, with an open ended question and i haven;t heard back. I know this sounds silly, but in case i left a bad impression i feel i should take a couple steps back. today is tuesday, and im dying to see her. I have plans for tonight so basically our meeting would just be for pure fun, though i don't want to seem too into her.So is the ball in her court, or am i justified since we're sleeping together? Maybe she didn't get the text or i didn't get a reponse? also part of me is worried that she didn't get back ok...so anyway, i seemed desperate by bringing up that she didnt call me that day to meet her for a drink and i am never that way, i was just having a bad day. Part of me says to have her miss me for a while.what do you all think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009): call her and ask if she want to crash at yours get a dvd sum take away or if shes to bussy for a drink go out for a meal and hit a bar
then wen you meet up tell her your sri if you gave the wrong inmpression but you generally really like her . . . try add sumthing kinky to the bedroom aswell that will wooh her
sumthing small an pleasurable for her . . . vibrating ring or sumthing . . but use it to finger her . . . jus a bit a advise
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reader, boo22  +, writes (21 July 2009):
 hi just text her something light hearted, tell her you are out tonight and you were wondering if she had any plans for weekend cos youd like to take her out somewhere. That way you dont look desperate but you do look respectful and see what happens. don't worry so much. good luck
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