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*ixieGwen
writes:I don't get it. My ex and I had a good relationship. He called/msged me daily or would offer to come see me daily. I hardly ever initiated contact cause he always called/came over..but I dug it. We broke up cause it seems like financial/home life stuff was piling up for him. We both were sad bout breaking up*or at least he seemed sad* but he wanted to stay in contact/hang.I told him I didn't need space and we could hang/talk whenever - cause he thought I would need space. We've talked a lot since then - mainly me contacting him but he'd reply no prob and seemed happy to hear from me. We're supposed to hang tomorrow and have talked bout being intimate.I don't understand how someone could go from one extreme (contacting me daily) to hardly contacting me at all. Yes it's only been a week but it sucks. It makes me wonder - did he really like me as much before, is THIS how he really is or is he trying to distance himself?Yes. I would love to get back together..but I enjoyed his company, his txts aswell..A LOT in fact.I know we're broken up but that doesnt mean we cant talk or hang out.I know there's no one else.. so whats the deal? I feel like asking him what's up..but it sounds silly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009): I think u should ask him. It looks like u havent let go yet. Could u handle it if he is with someone new? It looks like u should be together and needs sorting out. Your reasons for breaking up r not serious. No one has cheated or lied. It can mend if u both want it to.
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