A
female
age
30-35,
*gxtina
writes: Hello Cupid,I've been with my online boyfriend for 14 months. A big problem is that fight constantly!!! We fight about the smallest things ever but we still love each other just as much. We are very jealous people, and we tell each other to block several of our friends on msn/aim because of jealousy! We are both very sensitive as well and get very annoyed easily. And my life is very tough right now with my family and financially, so I tend to take things out on him, and it causes us to fight constantly! We fight about not being able to meet, we fight about a girl he talked to on msn/text, we fight if one says something wrong and upsets the other! This has been going on probably our entire relationship.We get along wonderfully when we're not fighting and we both want that 24/7! We both love each other dearly and want to prevent fighting and get along, what should we do? How can we change this? Will it get worse in real life? How do we have a healthier relationship in real life if it's not healthy on the internet?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (21 July 2009):
Jeeze Louise, what's wrong with this sentence..."We get along wonderfully when we're not fighting." and this one "it causes us to fight constantly."? I really don't see a way for your relationship to get healthy. It's only an online relationship anyway. I'd find somebody (with skin on) with whom you can get along and have some fun.
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