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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hey my friend really likes this guy she had been dating but then they stopped seeing each other, it was his decision as He made it clear he wasn't that into her by not even replying to messages etc. Anyway, he asked to meet up with her recently. I told her she should say no, because he messed her around and didn't even apologize, so she texted him: "is it ok if we don't meet up, because even though i really want to, i pressumed we wern't seeing each other anymore and you didn't even let me know what was going on"I think she made the right decision to text him this because, a) she is worth better than to be messed around and i don't think she needs to go through any more heartache over a guy that isnt that into her. and b) because if he really did like her, he would call her and say, "sorry for messing you around, i would like to carry on seeing you and i wont blow my chances again!"but he hasnt replied (yet)i know she really likes him and she regrets texting him this now, as she really wanted to see him.but i think it was a wise decision. i was in the same position a while back and i DID meet up and i regretted it as it just prolonged the process of getting over my guy.did i advice her right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009): I don't believe nonfactual advice can be judged with "rights" and "wrongs" and if i were factual it would be "information" not "advice" but i can tell you that because your advice was heartfelt and intended toward her own good, it was "good" as opposed to "bad" and I myself would have advised her the same..
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