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female
age
30-35,
*eena Dondaneau
writes: Hi, recently my boyfriend told me when ever we have sex that I dont smell very pleasant down there. I went and had a pap and everything was fine. i dont know what else to do?! any recommendations in how i can make the smell go away? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): well i agree with satindesire, if hes cumming in you that changes things... and not for the better.. so to beat that one...
no more cumming in me pal... you don't like the smell and it is not worth me giving up oral...
on a serious note.. that smell only goes away.. after a couple of days.. and its gross.. and not worth the effort. (my personal oppinion of course)
now if all this is not the deal,, try showering before sex.. which i recommend anyway.. i like everything all irish spring fresh if ya get what im sayin... getting funky together is different and somehow not as bad. lol
good luck
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reader, newbern +, writes (21 July 2009):
I agree with satindesire who post earlier. Some men actually actively like the smell. And, sorry to be gross, but any woman here would tell you about the aromas we have to put up with when we perform a certain thing...!You may want to tell him!...!
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reader, busy04 +, writes (21 July 2009):
First of all, EVERY woman has a natural smell in that area, that will NOT go away no matter how much you clean yourself.
If you have cleaned yourself well & went to your doctor and everything is fine then there's nothing for you do to.
Also, your diet can have an affect on how you smell, so you could change the way the things you eat. I don't recommend douching as it is not very healthy as they say it is.
Other than that tell your boyfriend to get over it, he may just be smelling his own self!
Hope that helps, but please don't do anything too extreme to please your boyfriend about this. He's just gonna have to deal with it. And you don't want to risk getting yeast infections (among other things) because of outrageous attempts to get rid of something that's normal for a woman.
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reader, Rogerramjet +, writes (21 July 2009):
Eh, my wife kind of has a similar issue (though i have never really told her this straight up.)
Not sure what exactly causes it, and have just really learned to live with it. I dunno if you want to try to shower shortly after sex?
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