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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:About 4 years ago now i started talking to this boy who was in my class... we became reali close friends and told each other everything. I helped him get through his break ups and vice verser. About 1 year and a half ago now he called me asking to come and see me as he fell out with his girlfriend of course i said yes. He asked for a hug as he was really down but then he kissed me. He then sorted things out with his girlfriend but from then on we kept secretly meeting each other and did things..... but i did not have sex with him. Around May last year it turned out he was also meeting another girl and his girlfriend found out. She then found about me and him (lukily i was leaving school at this point) it is now nearly a year later and i still feel disgusting and cheap for what I did, 4 days ago as i was walking to a friends i seen somebody i know with people i dont know i said hello to her and 1 lad said dont talk to her, shes aa homerecker and only sleeps with people who have girlfriends. I nealri burst into tears how do people i dont evan know, know this??? I dont know what to do and i feel awful for what i did.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): the damage has been done. but this boy is also to blame not you. there isnt much you can do to change peoples opinons but i wouldnt beat yourself up over this. your young and made a mistake. you realise that now which is the important thing. people can be cruel and his comment hurt you but just forget about it. its their problem not yours. this was a long time ago so move on and just dont repeat that mistake. dont beat yourself up over something in the past. :)
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