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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I'm sooo confused this time. i don't know which one is to choose. i have this crush for this guy, let's just name him boy 1, and i also have a crush on the other guy which is the boy 2. I have a crush on boy 1 since jan 2008, and he knows that i have a crush on him. ever since he knew that i like him, he always wanted to talk to me, he even texted me sweet quotes. on the other guy, well, he's just new. i just developed my crush on him last month. and i know it's too late because both of them are now graduating students. I don't know what to do. Everytime i see boy 1 with other girls, i get jealous and everytime i see boy 2 with other girls also, i also get jealous. I don't know which i like the most. and now, while i'm typing this, tomorrow will be their js prom. and i'm really sad right now, i don' know why. now my question is, should i just forget the two of them? whom should i choose?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): i think you should take a step back and forget them, if you end up with boy1 (who btw sounds very into you) you will end up hurting him as im sure your thoughts will be on boy2. the point is you dont know what you want, which means you dont really want either of them. if you truly liked one of them more than the other you would no. but you dont. so just have fun being single and find someone that you only have eyes for. getting involed with someone while your into another person will only lead to trouble. and you say they are both leaving? why give yourself any extra bother.hope this helps :)
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